How to use a double-ended dildo

A double-ended dildo can be a perfect masturbation companion. But you can also use it with your partner. At first, using a double-ended dildo can be intimidating for both beginners and experienced users.  But this should not be the case. If you love penetrative sex and also like using a dildo, don’t shy away from using a double-ended dildo either for masturbation or with your partner. 

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What you need to know about double-ended dildos

Double-ended dildos are available in different shapes, lengths, materials, and textures. So if a realistic dildo with balls and plenty of veins puts you off, just know that there are other alternatives available for you. 

How to use a double-ended dildo-the basics

A double-ended dildo (or double dong as other people refer to it) is a sex toy with a long smooth shaft. It comes with a molded head on both sides for penetration. 

There are plenty of options when it comes to double-ended dildos for beginners. But some of these toys can be as also as long as 22 inches.  Sex experts advise that the best option, to begin with, is a double-ended dildo made of silicone.  It should also be flexible enough to bend and fit comfortably. 

The best way to use a double-ended dildo- Use lube

Moistening both ends of the double-ended should be the first step that you should consider before using the sex toy. Note that you should never attempt to use silicone lube if your sex toy is made of silicone.

These two tend to react badly and can deteriorate your sex toy.  Instead, you should use a high-quality, organic lube with no harmful allergens. The best way to use a double-ended dildo will depend on whether you want to enjoy a solo quest or your aim is to have some shared fun. 

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Using a double-sided dildo for masturbation

 In this case, the best option is a flexible double-ended dildo. At first, the dildo may feel wobbly and unwieldy. But you can enjoy it more by bending and twisting it. You can use both sides of the dildo for either anal or vaginal penetration. If you are just getting started with sex toys, try using one with a slimmer shaft for easier penetration. 

You can use a double-ended dildo in two main ways.  There are however different variations that you can consider trying. 

  • First, you can lie on your back and use a cushion to support your hips.  Spread your legs and gently insert the dildo. Since this is a double-ended dildo, bend the other side towards you and use it as a handle. 
  • The other alternative is to bend the dildo so as to form a U shape.  Then place it on a surface, both sides facing up. Squat over it, and then insert one side inside the vagina and the other side in the anus. You can bounce on the dildo to get stimulation from both sides.

Using a double-ended dildo with a partner

If you are using the sex toy with a partner, ensure that you use a double dildo that is quite firm. 

  • All fours. One option is to kneel on all fours and backing onto each end of the dildo.  This gives each of you the chance to take the dildo at your own pace. 
  • Faceoff. This is an easy trick; just sit facing each other and ensure that your feet and hands touch. Then slide the dildo between. Both of you can enjoy the full length of the dildo while thrusting backward and forward.  Feel free to maintain eye contact.
  • Add more toys. If penetration isn’t enough for you to get an orgasm, you can use a bullet vibrator and a clit vibrator as well. Then insert the dildo to get stimulation from all these options.